Valerie Bertinelli’s New Memoir
Valerie Bertinelli, aged 65, has unveiled her latest memoir titled ‘Getting Naked: The Quiet Work of Becoming Perfectly Imperfect’, which was published on March 10, 2026. The book delves into her personal journey of self-acceptance and healing, addressing significant events from her past, including her experiences with trauma and relationships.
In her memoir, Bertinelli candidly shares that she was sexually abused at the age of 11, a traumatic experience that has shaped her life. “I was sexually assaulted. It doesn’t feel like it owns me anymore. I’m a survivor,” she states, highlighting her resilience and growth over the years. She has also learned about Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy to help cope with her trauma.
Bertinelli’s life has been marked by notable relationships, including her 26-year marriage to rock legend Eddie Van Halen, which ended in divorce in 2007 after their separation in 2001. Despite the challenges, she reflects on her love for him, saying, “I still love him to this day. But when I say that, people are like, what? It’s because I love the human being. I love his soul.” Eddie Van Halen passed away from cancer in 2020, leaving a lasting impact on Bertinelli’s life.
Her son, Wolfgang Van Halen, now 34, is also mentioned in the memoir, showcasing the bond they share. Bertinelli’s second marriage to Tom Vitale lasted just over a decade and was finalized in 2022. Currently, she has expressed that she is not interested in pursuing another relationship, focusing instead on her personal growth and healing.
Throughout her memoir, Bertinelli emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and the ongoing journey of healing. She reflects on her past and the lessons learned, stating, “If someone wants to spend months writing and lying about me, they can, because it doesn’t define who I am.” This statement underscores her commitment to her identity beyond the public perception.
In addition to her personal struggles, Bertinelli also recalls the loss of her brother Mark, who died when he was just 17 months old. This early loss contributed to the complexities of her family dynamics and her own emotional landscape.
As Bertinelli continues to navigate her life after significant losses and challenges, observers are keen to see how her journey of self-acceptance unfolds. Her memoir serves as a testament to her resilience and a source of inspiration for many who have faced similar struggles.
